Connection options

[autonome]

• make the post-connection delay optionally configurable
• make connection detection more deterministic (slightly) by listening for ping event
• add an optional onConnect callback

if you want to use Jerk to do things that aren't channel activity responses, such as a bot that pushes content to a channel, things were all fail-y. this set of changes makes it super easy to make a bot that connects, and on a successful connection, starts doing stuff.

[gf3]

Nice! Thank you!

[gf3]

Merged :)