svm: fix for JDK 21.0.4 after the downport of "8315373: Change VirtualThread to unmount after freezing, re-mount before thawing" and dependent changes

[zakkak]

Clone of @simonis' upstream PR https://github.com/graalvm/graalvm-for-jdk21-community-backports/pull/1 to get our CI back to green.

• svm: adopt "JDK-8312498 Thread::getState and JVM TI GetThreadState should return TIMED_WAITING virtual thread is timed parked" [GR-48899]
• [GR-48899] Support TIMED_WAITING for virtual threads.
• svm: adopt "JDK-8321270: Virtual Thread.yield consumes parking permit" [GR-50851]
• svm: fix for JDK 21.0.4 after the downport of "8315373: Change VirtualThread to unmount after freezing, re-mount before thawing" and dependnet changes

[zakkak]

Switching to draft as it seems to fail...

[zakkak]

Superseded by https://github.com/graalvm/mandrel/pull/738