Accidental improvements whilst helping Jem on the docs...

[benjie]

• Converts the users-and-friends example to ESM
• Adds if arg to inhibitOnNull()
• Adds nodeIdFromNode(handler, $node) helper
• Fixes performance of loadOne()/loadMany() by changing setTimeout to process.nextTick
• Fixes flags on listItem bucket root step

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