chore: use pre-commit and ruff

[kiendang]

Move all the formatters and linters into pre-commit with ruff. The benefits are:

• Checks are sped up considerably since you don't have to run each of black, isort, flake8, ... in a separate tox env.
• black, isort, flake8, ... can be removed from dependencies. Earlier there were problems with updating their versions since they caused dependency conflicts with the framework packages.

[kiendang]

Also added C4 flake8-comprehensions. See https://github.com/graphql-python/graphene-django/pull/1441#discussion_r1285089960.