Update typescript setup

[sndrs]

What are you changing?

• adds tsc commands to all apps/packages
• removes Nx's tsconfig.spec.json files (ts-jest doesn't need them anyway)
• fixes some issues that the more thorough checking discovered
• swaps out "include": ["."] for "include": ["**/*"] (just for clarity, because it's TS's actual default)
• bumps some deps to deal with conflicting types in their deps

Two fixes also need new releases:

• bumps @emotion/react to fix (an issue with ambient type defs in it's deps)(https://github.com/emotion-js/emotion/pull/3141)
• updates an import from libs in dev-kitchen

Why?

The recent move to using esbuild in rollup (#1385) means that types are not checked as part of the build process.

Even when they were, files which were included in TS projects but were not included in builds (e.g. configs, stories etc) were never checked.

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[!TIP] Once this PR is ready to go, add the run_chromatic label to run the Chromatic tests.

This saves us a lot of money by not running the tests before we need them.