fix: passing upgrade `@HapiTest`

[tinker-michaelj]

Description:

• Closes #13993
• Avoids need for 180s sleep after a full restart by re-assigning all SubProcessNetwork ports.
• In CI, does not enable JDWP and redirects error output to each node's test-clients.log file.

And includes fixes on consensus node:

1. Avoids MutabilityException in thread that unzips 0.0.150 and writes marker file for PREPARE_UPGRADE by first assembling the list of active nodes from the ReadableNodeStore.
2. Writes nextNodeId line to generated config.txt.
3. Allows iteration over the data source of a OnDiskWritableKVState per conversations with @artemananiev .
4. In SocketFactory#configureAndBind(), sets SO_REUSEADDR first before binding, as it lacks the desired effect otherwise and leads to many PortBindingExceptions in restart and reconnect tests.

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