Update google.golang.org/grpc to v1.58.3 to address CVE-2023-44487

[sam-caldwell]

Problem:

• google.golang.org/grpc package introduced Denial of Service (DoS) vulnerability (identified by snyk). see CVE-2023-44487.
• Defect affecting google.golang.org/grpc package, versions <1.56.3 >=1.57.0 <1.57.1 >=1.58.0 <1.58.3.
• Affected versions of this package are vulnerable to Denial of Service (DoS) in the implementation of the HTTP/2 protocol. An attacker can cause a denial of service (including via DDoS) by rapidly resetting many streams through request cancellation

Solution:

• Update google.golang.org/grpc to v1.58.3 to address CVE-2023-44487
• Ran go mod tidy -compat=1.17

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