Update app dev tutorial to include Go and Java (backport #5038)

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This change uses (linked) tabs to display code snippets and language-specific commands for the user's desired programming language.

In order to use the sphinx-tabs extension, the version of Python used to build the docs had to be updated. Since the n42org/tox Docker image used had a very old Python version baked in, and there were no more recent versions available, the make docs target now uses the official Python image. In addition to providing a much more current Python environment, this image natively supports arm64 in addition to amd64, allowing docs to be built on Apple Silicon Macs.

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #5038 done by Mergify.

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    modified:   docs/source/conf.py
    modified:   docs/source/write_first_app.rst
    modified:   tox.ini

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    both modified:   docs/requirements.txt

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