Rework Buildimage and Pipeline due to Circular Dependency of Rocksdb in Build Image

[pSchlarb]

Same as https://github.com/hyperledger/indy-plenum/issues/1634

• [x] move to a slimmed down buildimage(only the dependencies needed for creating the package),

  • [x] rearrange the pipeline so that it installs node with the just built package for testing, which should pull in all the required dependencies.
  • [x] rework the indy-shared-gha call of the jfrog-cli to be able to override/update files (maybe just permissions for the token )