deprecate `setCancel` with rename to `setPerformCancel`

[MichaelBelousov]

• rename setCancel to less action-ambiguous wording setCanceller
• deprecate setCancel usage
• done in both useAsyncEffect and useAsyncInterval

[MichaelBelousov]

looks like the publish yaml is invalid, will need to look into that eventually

[MichaelBelousov]

we're considering other names so not merging yet:

• setOnCancel
• setOnCancelled
• setCleanupCallback
• setCleanup
• setCancellationCleanup
• handleCleanup
• onCleanup
• setCleanuphandler
• onRequestCancellation

[MichaelBelousov]

what about setCancelMethod