Remove Python 3.8 support, and add python 3.13 and numpy 2.0 support

[MicahGale]

Description

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Fixes #201, fixes #457

Checklist

• [x] I have performed a self-review of my own code
• [x] Remove fail-fast flag.

[MicahGale]

Want to review this now @tjlaboss, so if everything passes tomorrow we can merge on Python day?

[MicahGale]

It looks like pytest-profile is incompatible with 3.13. I'm thinking of just uninstalling it for now as a work around

[tjlaboss]

Yeah, we can remove it from CI and just profile <=3.12 locally

[MicahGale]

We can still profile. Just do the profiling on <= 3.12 in CI. We don't need profiling to run the test suite in 3.13