Use tmp cache dirs (by default) on porter, dont override user settings

[MTCam]

Slight change to parallel spawning on porter to use tmp cache dirs, trying to stop CUDA_FILE_NOT_FOUND and Failed to generate PTX errors on Porter. Also changes all of parallel spawning not to override the users settings if they exist.

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