Update parent pom

[alecharp]

As part of the plugin modernization, first step is to update the parent pom.

• [x] Make sure you are opening from a topic/feature/bugfix branch (right side) and not your main branch!
• [x] Ensure that the pull request title represents the desired changelog entry
• [x] Please describe what you did
• [ ] Link to relevant issues in GitHub or Jira
• [ ] Link to relevant pull requests, esp. upstream and downstream changes
• [ ] Ensure you have provided tests - that demonstrates feature works or fixes the issue