Manual release: add clean-up instructions (pre-build)

[benbovy]

I had some issues with packages that I built by manually following the instructions here (e.g., wrong version number shown with jupyter labextension list) and it took me a while before I realize it was because I hadn't cleaned up my local development repository.

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[fcollonval]

@meeseeksdev please backport to 4.0