fix: use apply set tooling in apply set applier

[ChristopherFry]

What this PR does / why we need it: This pull request fixes an issue where the updateParentLabelsAndAnnotations function always updates the parent object. This was due to the applyset.kubernetes.io/tooling annotation being set to a different value in the kubectl apply package than what the apply set applier expected.

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/cc yuwenma

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/lgtm

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/ok-to-test

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/retest

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/retest

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Thanks @ChristopherFry

/approve /lgtm

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