Update Windows CI job

[FreezyLemon]

• Update multiple actions to Node 20
• Switch to maintained softprops/action-gh-release
• Update to VS R66 and Python 3.12
• Use Swatinem/rust-cache instead of manual caching
• Remove FFmpeg/VS caching (caching doesn't save time)

[FreezyLemon]

Example run

[master-of-zen]

LGTM 👍🏽