Optionally avoid deserialization when resolving references

[gpetretto]

Summary

Following the discussion about the need to deserialize objects when the output references are being resolved, I have added an option to avoid it. This would fail if the reference is a property of the deserialized object.

[codecov[bot]]

Codecov Report

Merging #512 (2917456) into main (0032693) will increase coverage by 0.00%. The diff coverage is 100.00%.

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[utf]

This looks great, thanks @gpetretto