add goId

[daviszhen]

What type of PR is this?

• [ ] API-change
• [x] BUG
• [x] Improvement
• [ ] Documentation
• [ ] Feature
• [ ] Test and CI
• [ ] Code Refactoring

Which issue(s) this PR fixes:

issue #https://github.com/matrixorigin/matrixone/issues/20089

What this PR does / why we need it:

在proxy 所有打印conn Id 的地方，打印goid.方便定位malloc panic问题。