Make release working with the qe-app last release + other improvements

[mikibonacci]

• [x] release compatible with the qe app released (see https://github.com/mikibonacci/aiidalab-qe-vibroscopy/pull/71)
• [ ] github workflows to publish automatically on pypi new releases
• [x] pytests to check consistency with the qe-app
• [x] automatic phonopy installation (see https://github.com/mikibonacci/aiidalab-qe-vibroscopy/issues/66)