BUG: columns mismatch after df.update

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Reproducible Example

import modin.pandas as pd

df = pd.DataFrame({'C': [1, 2, 3], 'B': [400, 500, 600]})
new_df = pd.DataFrame({'B': [4, 5, 6], 'A': [7, 8, 9]})
df.update(new_df)
print(df)
   B  C
0  4  1
1  5  2
2  6  3

Issue Description

Columns get ordered while in pandas not.

Expected Behavior

Should match pandas.

Error Logs

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Installed Versions

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