DRIVERS-2799: Use more permissive top-level runOnRequirements

[jmikola]

https://jira.mongodb.org/browse/DRIVERS-2799

This also fixes an outstanding inconsistency in one of the retryable writes POC tests for the unified test runner, which would otherwise start failing once DRIVERS-1641 is implemented.

PHPLIB POC: https://github.com/mongodb/mongo-php-library/pull/1210

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Please complete the following before merging:

• [x] Update changelog.
• [x] Make sure there are generated JSON files from the YAML test files.
• [x] Test changes in at least one language driver.
• [x] Test these changes against all server versions and topologies (including standalone, replica set, sharded clusters, and serverless).