DRIVERS-2822 Add sort option to `updateOne`

[qingyang-hu]

Summary

Add a sort option to updateOne() so if it matches more than one candidate document the first one matched by the sort order will be updated.

Background & Motivation

The new syntax allows a sort option to be supplied to an update command. The upstream server changes are at https://jira.mongodb.org/browse/SERVER-78140.

Some example commands can be found at: https://github.com/mongodb/mongo/commit/e443421240f5a111e19cf0870ff4f545deecea8c#diff-c9ff788fbdeb3594c45d85c449a[…]21f5ef32ede8f9c858e6e3072e0c8R27

The corresponding mongosh docs: https://www.mongodb.com/docs/upcoming/reference/method/db.collection.updateOne/ Though the command docs have not been updated yet.

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Please complete the following before merging:

• [x] Update changelog.
• [x] Make sure there are generated JSON files from the YAML test files.
• [x] Test changes in at least one language driver.
• [x] Test these changes against all server versions and topologies (including standalone, replica set, sharded clusters, and serverless).

[ShaneHarvey]

Removing myself, I'll defer to Jeremy + the bulk write spec authors.

[jmikola]

@qingyang-hu: Please ping me for another review once the Bulk Write spec/tests are updated.

[qingyang-hu]

@jmikola, can you please take a look again? I've added the sort to the client-level bulk write.

[qingyang-hu]

@jmikola, can you please review the updates?