FEATURE: Separate properties and references in Neos UI

[pKallert]

Review instructions This will work together with https://github.com/neos/neos-ui/pull/3810/files - references are now no longer included in the properties, but will be used separately, just like in the config.

This also fixes the label translation afterwards

Followup / Cleanup for https://github.com/neos/neos-development-collection/pull/4677 Solves parts of https://github.com/neos/neos-development-collection/issues/4981

Checklist

• [ ] Code follows the PSR-2 coding style
• [ ] Tests have been created, run and adjusted as needed
• [ ] The PR is created against the lowest maintained branch
• [ ] Reviewer - PR Title is brief but complete and starts with FEATURE|TASK|BUGFIX
• [ ] Reviewer - The first section explains the change briefly for change-logs
• [ ] Reviewer - Breaking Changes are marked with !!! and have upgrade-instructions

[mhsdesign]

Btw with these changes ClientEval code might also need to be migrated as node.properties.myReference will no longer work but its node.references.myReference ... we should document this

Also youre basically solving unknowingly the things here https://github.com/neos/neos-development-collection/issues/4981 so thanks :D