[ ] use topologySpreadConstraints so the deployments above to match the number of target nodes or have neon-cluster-operator watch nodes and adjust the replica count? We'll also need to configure anti-affinity.
[ ] istio-ingressgateway: configure the ingress rules
[ ] Convert to standard V1Gateway for ingress specifications? This appears to handle UDP which Istio doesn't appear to support yet.
Here are some things to follow up on for the cilium/istio changes: