Add support for using multiple memory slots in rmt setup

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Fixes #3567 .

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I added the slots parameter to configure the amount of memory that is used by the sender or receiver. This can be up to 8 on the regular ESP32, but is smaller on other platform. An error will be thrown if the request cannot be honored.