Ensure creation order and deletion order of children where needed

[juliev0]

Summary

This is a parent issue for creating ordering of children for creation and deletion: Creation:

• [ ] #285 (deprioritized) Deletion:
• [ ] #73
• [ ] #425 (highest priority)

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