generic: conv: deconv: reduce kernel argument size

[sgeor255]

Description

This PR splits the conf struct for Convolution primitives into 3 separate structs, reducing the argument size passed to the kernel and enabling them to run on intel devices.

Checklist

General

• [X] Do all unit and benchdnn tests (make test and make test_benchdnn_*) pass locally for each commit?
• [X] Have you formatted the code using clang-format?

[mgouicem]

make test disable device_cpu enable device_gpu enable thr_cuda enable thr_generic enable arch_rtx

[sgeor255]

From what I can see the CI failure is not related to the changes in this PR.