fix(js,java): correct error thrown when using a wildcard as a from re…

[ewanharris]

Description

Fixes the self reference with wildcard test to correctly report a tupleuset-not-direct error and fix the line/column numbers

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[ewanharris]

Closing as will be merged as part of #209