Refactor(main/release-v3.5): refactor openim docker repo

[cubxxw]

🔍 What type of PR is this?

/kind cleanup /kind documentation /kind feature

👀 What this PR does / why we need it:

• [ ] My pull request adheres to the code style of this project
• [ ] My code requires changes to the documentation
• [ ] I have updated the documentation as required
• [ ] All the tests have passed

This is an epic reconstruction that completely subverts the previous deployment logic of Openim-server. It will make deploying docker compose even more streamlined and convenient.

🅰 Which issue(s) this PR fixes:

Resolves openimsdk/open-im-server#1514, resolves openimsdk/open-im-server#1513, resolves openimsdk/open-im-server#1504

📝 Special notes for your reviewer:

🎯 Describe how to verify it

CICD github actions gh

📑 Additional documentation e.g., RFC, notion, Google docs, usage docs, etc.:

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• [ ] Apply: All new business logic should have corresponding unit tests.
• [ ] Apply: Refactor large functions to be more modular.
• [ ] Apply: Add docstrings to all functions and file headers.