Bring Gradle dependency upgrades to parity with maven dependency upgrades

[sambsnyd]

Anywhere we use a Maven recipe to bump a dependency we should have a corresponding gradle change.

[okundzich]

I remember jonathan mentioning https://github.com/openrewrite/rewrite-java-dependencies that could manage dependency recipes and delegate to maven or gradle.

[knutwannheden]

Should we add a new recipe to openrewrite/rewrite-java-dependencies in the scope of this issue already?

[knutwannheden]

@sambsnyd Would we now be in a good position to implement the buildtool-agnostic dependency upgrade recipe in openrewrite/rewrite-java-dependencies?

[timtebeek]

Picked up in https://github.com/openrewrite/rewrite-spring/commit/5e90a83ebedf970800cdb4719f46852bb132a40d