Updated charts to follow the OpenSearch Project's inclusive language standards

Description

This will bring the charts in line with https://opensearch.org/blog/Adopting-inclusive-language-across-OpenSearch/

Additionally it resolves the issue where a multi-replica cluster fails to perform initial discovery when you attempt to use the role from the inclusive language and deploy the chart with the following values

roles:
  - cluster_manager
  - ingest
  - data
  - remote_cluster_client

In this case, you will observe the following log message repeated a few times

[2024-07-16T02:47:56,461][WARN ][o.o.c.c.ClusterFormationFailureHelper] [opensearch-cluster-master-0] cluster-manager not discovered yet, this node has not previously joined a bootstrapped cluster, and [cluster.initial_cluster_manager_nodes] is empty on this node: have discovered [{opensearch-cluster-master-0}{4LevXxJKSjqPPDCHL3xQXA}{AC5gnzcwR5yR9CKGuan3Og}{10.244.1.8}{10.244.1.8:9300}{dimr}{shard_indexing_pressure_enabled=true}, {opensearch-cluster-master-1}{xw8pX8CcTBWNl2ylGCxp-w}{2XFteZTzRrOZ6ilsxJC6Ug}{10.244.3.7}{10.244.3.7:9300}{dimr}{shard_indexing_pressure_enabled=true}, {opensearch-cluster-master-2}{y_bTw1kcQWOhNyDAI2MZ7A}{tN-aAkHLTduCo6g7EsR2HQ}{10.244.2.7}{10.244.2.7:9300}{dimr}{shard_indexing_pressure_enabled=true}]; discovery will continue using [10.244.3.7:9300, 10.244.2.7:9300] from hosts providers and [{opensearch-cluster-master-0}{4LevXxJKSjqPPDCHL3xQXA}{AC5gnzcwR5yR9CKGuan3Og}{10.244.1.8}{10.244.1.8:9300}{dimr}{shard_indexing_pressure_enabled=true}] from last-known cluster state; node term 0, last-accepted version 0 in term 0

with this log message also repeating over and over

[2024-07-16T02:47:56,469][INFO ][o.o.s.c.ConfigurationRepository] [opensearch-cluster-master-0] Wait for cluster to be available ...

Issues Resolved

https://github.com/opensearch-project/helm-charts/issues/276 https://github.com/opensearch-project/helm-charts/issues/366

Check List

[x] Commits are signed per the DCO using --signoff

For any changes to files within Helm chart directories:

[x] Helm chart version bumped
[x] Helm chart CHANGELOG.md updated to reflect change

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