Upgrade bytebuddy and objenesis version to match OpenSearch core and, update github ci runner for macos

[VijayanB]

Description

Received following conflict

   > Conflicts found for the following modules:
       - net.bytebuddy:byte-buddy between versions 1.15.10 and 1.15.4
       - org.objenesis:objenesis between versions 3.3 and 3.2

Fixed by upgrading to new version

macos-12 is deprecated, upgrade to macos-13

Also install libomp since it is missing in macos-13 Fixed by updating runner to use macos-13 image

Related Issues

Resolves #[Issue number to be closed when this PR is merged]

Check List

• [ ] New functionality includes testing.
• [ ] New functionality has been documented.
• [ ] API changes companion pull request created.
• [x] Commits are signed per the DCO using --signoff.
• [ ] Public documentation issue/PR created.

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[VijayanB]

To get successful CI, i need to club both issues that breaks build into one PR