CVE-2023-45142: update otelhttp to match master

[chr15p]

fix for CVE-2023-45142 as per OCPBUGS-22550

This CVE is already fixed in master and 4.15 so this PR attempts to fix it in 4.14 as well

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[yevgeny-shnaidman]

/lgtm

[chr15p]

/retest

[chr15p]

/hold

[chr15p]

this is (probably) superceeded by CVE-2023-47108 / OCPBUGS-23816 so hold until that is assessed

[chr15p]

superseded by #119