PODAUTO-102: Add NodeSelector and Tolerations fields to deploymentoverrides

[joelsmith]

Also, clean up TestOverrideResources's flipped expected/actual ordering

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@joelsmith: This pull request references PODAUTO-102 which is a valid jira issue.

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[jkyros]

Thanks Joel, it's awesome that you found a way to keep the old default behavior and give Hypershift what they need. /lgtm

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