fix skip change queue

[samuelstroschein]

Context

After removing $skip_change_queue from the type, users don't need to explicitly set $skip_change_queue. The result is sqlite not flipping the skip change queue flag back to 0.

Task

Find another way to skip the change queue OR ignore alltogether by implementing LIXDK-114

[samuelstroschein]

we need to bypass the change-queue for apply changes. only testing for the snapshot or traversing the graph will not be enough.