feat: linux musl static bins / windows aarch64

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• create linux executables linked statically to musl
  • drop gnu (glibc) target, executable will work on alpine & glibc based distros (debian etc)
• create windows aarch64 target
  • required update to Cargo.lock to update ring to v0.17 due to build failures on v0.16
• refactor release script & workflow to match pact-reference
  • builds on pull request to master/main branch, in debug mode
• add Docker automated pipeline during release
  • publish multi-arch amd64/arm64
  • publish to DockerHub
  • publish to GitHub container registry

Related epics

• musl all the things
  • https://github.com/pact-foundation/devrel/issues/30
• publish to github container registry
  • https://github.com/pact-foundation/devrel/issues/29