TCP/WebSocket: Fix memory leak of canceled state and canceled futures

[lexnv]

Similar to https://github.com/paritytech/litep2p/issues/269, the state tracking around canceling dials is monotonically increasing:

• cancel dials leak a connection ID possibly every connection
• cancel dials leak an AbortableHandler possibly every connection

The AbortableHandler logic was introduced on top of the cancellation by connection ID, therefore I expect the fix to be similar for both cases.

TCP

WebSocket

cc @paritytech/networking

[lexnv]

The cancel by abort handler is not yet merged, therefore the leak might come entirely from the "cancel by connection ID"

• https://github.com/paritytech/litep2p/pull/255