Fix(volume): fix unexpected pod restart during resize storage size (#5602)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #5602

This PR fixes #5601. Store currently using ConfigMap name into tc.annotations before delete STS when do resize storage size. And then retrieve it to overwrite ConfigMap name in the STS recreation to remain name unchanged.

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Project coverage is 47.82%. Comparing base (d032996) to head (f79bd5c).

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