*: add rpc error stats and refine log (#52810)

[ti-chi-bot]

This is an automated cherry-pick of #52810

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #52809

Related PR: https://github.com/tikv/client-go/pull/1300

Problem Summary:

What changed and how does it work?

Check List

Tests

• [x] Unit test
• [ ] Integration test
• [x] Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
• [ ] No need to test

  • [ ] I checked and no code files have been changed.

Side effects

• [ ] Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• [ ] Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• [ ] Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• [ ] Affects user behaviors
• [ ] Contains syntax changes
• [ ] Contains variable changes
• [ ] Contains experimental features
• [ ] Changes MySQL compatibility

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[crazycs520]

/retest-required

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[crazycs520]

/retest-required

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Timeline:

• 2024-04-30 02:41:05.901485104 +0000 UTC m=+325019.658620671: :ballot_box_with_check: agreed by cfzjywxk.
• 2024-04-30 05:17:34.583129554 +0000 UTC m=+334408.340265127: :ballot_box_with_check: agreed by MyonKeminta.