planner, statistics: async load should load all column meta info for lite init

[winoros]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: ref https://github.com/pingcap/tidb/issues/53141

Problem Summary:

What changed and how does it work?

async load should do the same thing for the lite init

Check List

Tests

• [x] Unit test
• [ ] Integration test
• [ ] Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
• [ ] No need to test

  • [ ] I checked and no code files have been changed.

Side effects

• [ ] Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• [ ] Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• [ ] Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• [ ] Affects user behaviors
• [ ] Contains syntax changes
• [ ] Contains variable changes
• [ ] Contains experimental features
• [ ] Changes MySQL compatibility

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• 2024-05-15 09:54:10.073913094 +0000 UTC m=+1647003.831048667: :ballot_box_with_check: agreed by hawkingrei.
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[winoros]

/cherrypick release-8.1

[ti-chi-bot]

@winoros: new pull request created to branch release-8.1: #53307.

In response to [this](https://github.com/pingcap/tidb/pull/53297#issuecomment-2113439391): >/cherrypick release-8.1 Instructions for interacting with me using PR comments are available [here](https://prow.tidb.net/command-help). If you have questions or suggestions related to my behavior, please file an issue against the [ti-community-infra/tichi](https://github.com/ti-community-infra/tichi/issues/new?title=Prow%20issue:) repository.

[hawkingrei]

/cherrypick release-7.5

[ti-chi-bot]

@hawkingrei: new pull request created to branch release-7.5: #53456.

In response to [this](https://github.com/pingcap/tidb/pull/53297#issuecomment-2122650730): >/cherrypick release-7.5 Instructions for interacting with me using PR comments are available [here](https://prow.tidb.net/command-help). If you have questions or suggestions related to my behavior, please file an issue against the [ti-community-infra/tichi](https://github.com/ti-community-infra/tichi/issues/new?title=Prow%20issue:) repository.