statsitstics: avoid sync load column which is skiped type to analyze (#57144)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #57144

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #57138

Problem Summary:

What changed and how does it work?

Sometimes, we disable the analysis of certain columns using analyze_skip_column. However, these columns may still retain outdated statistics, especially after being modified. Since their statistics are larger, syncing them via sync load can be very slow and prone to timeouts. To address this, we filter out these columns.

Check List

Tests

• [x] Unit test
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• [ ] No need to test

  • [ ] I checked and no code files have been changed.

Side effects

• [ ] Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• [ ] Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• [ ] Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• [ ] Affects user behaviors
• [ ] Contains syntax changes
• [ ] Contains variable changes
• [ ] Contains experimental features
• [ ] Changes MySQL compatibility

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statsitstics: avoid sync load column which is skiped to analyze

避免将 skip analyze 的列通过 sync load 加载

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