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我觉得性格敏感的人真的太难了。 #294

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platojobs commented 1 year ago

我觉得性格敏感的人真的太难了。

对于没说出口的谢谢能惦记好几天。不敢提自己的请求,害怕给别人带来麻烦。不敢拒绝,不想给别人带来不开心的情绪。

总是在意别人的感受,宁愿自己受委屈,也不想别人不开心,对方一失落,你就紧张,对方一道歉,你就心软,甚至觉得自己生气不原谅都是自己的错。

一个小细节一句话一个表情一个动作都会被无限放大。喜欢胡思乱想,遇到一点小问题就变得痛不欲生。

甚至大部分时候陷入失落情绪,其实什么事都没发生。得到的快乐还是那么点快乐,难过却可以被自己放大好多倍。

或许是从未得到过生活的偏爱,才会活得如此小心翼翼没有安全感。