Scholarsphere ruby, rails, node updates

[ajkiessl]

We want our ruby base images on ruby 3.3 and debian 12. Preferably also node 20. So, we'll need to get everything downstream updated.

New versions:

• Rails 7.2
• Ruby 3.3
• Node 20

[ajkiessl]

We want to do these incrementally in the following order:

• [ ] #1634
• [ ] #1635
• [ ] #1636