Backport replay additions from pulumi-terraform-bridge

[t0yv0]

Alternative to https://github.com/pulumi/providertest/pull/59

The motivation is to deprecate the replay module in pulumi-terraform-bridge in favor of a Go package here under generic providertest, and backport edits that happened in pulumi-terraform-bridge to this new home.

Unlike #59 two small things:

• trying not to expose the match options but solve the CheckFailure ordering on semantic level
• trying to make Errors compatible with gRPC log capture format []string

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Codecov Report

Attention: 91 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Comparison is base (8c45fd2) 33.45% compared to head (2c3636a) 36.41%. Report is 2 commits behind head on main.

Files	Patch %	Lines
providers/providerMock.go	44.14%	60 Missing and 2 partials :warning:
replay/replay.go	67.56%	20 Missing and 4 partials :warning:
pulumitest/assertrefresh/asserts.go	66.66%	2 Missing and 1 partial :warning:
pulumitest/pulumiTest.go	88.23%	1 Missing and 1 partial :warning:

Additional details and impacted files

```diff @@ Coverage Diff @@ ## main #61 +/- ## ========================================== + Coverage 33.45% 36.41% +2.96% ========================================== Files 42 42 Lines 2571 2628 +57 ========================================== + Hits 860 957 +97 + Misses 1606 1566 -40 Partials 105 105 ```

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