(PE-37466) Ensure query monitor forgets for all relevant routes

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[rbrw]

Suggest ignoring blankspace when looking at some of the commits.

[jonathannewman]

Given the relative complexity of the code, and the multi-threaded nature of it, have you considered adding debug and trace level logging to both this code and the query monitor to help isolate issues when they occur?