Update cibuildwheel to fix setuptools 74.0.0 compatibility

[mraspaud]

This is to solve compilation problems on windows arm64.

Also attempts to port setup.cfg to pyproject.toml

• [ ] Closes #xxxx
• [ ] Tests added
• [ ] Tests passed
• [ ] Fully documented

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[djhoese]

@mraspaud See https://github.com/pypa/setuptools/issues/4610 for details but it seems cibuildwheel's newest release fixes an issue that setuptools 74.0.0 was running into. Updating cibuildwheel in my test debug-wheels branch seems to have success building, but then failed on Python 3.13 because pyproj hasn't released 3.13 wheels yet. I've skipped building for Python 3.13 until pyproj is able to make their compatible release.

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coverage: 93.676%. remained the same when pulling 8fe29a033cf288cea3cfbfaaeeaed6140d44789b on mraspaud:fix-setuptools-version into 280c2258d51625f7747e7b08aabf4bbb71edcf87 on pytroll:main.