[enhancement] cooldown in `on_message`

[rtk-rnjn]

Fixes this

Description:

• Add spam control cooldown for on_mention event

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Checklist:

• [x] I have performed a self-review of my own code.
• [x] I have commented my code, particularly in hard-to-understand areas.

Maybe?

• Add arbitrary command for owner to update/disable cooldown