fix auto setup, make VecUChar.toU8List() return a copy of data, upgrade to OpenCV 4.10.0

[rainyl]

auto setup download from release

• [x] fix auto setup, make it download from releases instead of build locally
• [x] make VecUChar.toU8List() return a copy of data rather than a view
• [x] upgrade to OpenCV 4.10.0

Releated issues:

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[rainyl]

For macos-14 arm64, it's a bug of opencv, waiting for it's fix Fixed by disabling obsensor

• https://github.com/rainyl/opencv_dart/actions/runs/9420154891/job/25951551253#step:4:140
• https://github.com/opencv/opencv/issues/25693

For windows, tests are passed on my PC, not sure why failed on windows-2022 runner, github updated the runners recently, maybe it's a problem of runner...

Edit: Releated:

• https://github.com/actions/runner-images/issues/10004
• https://github.com/actions/runner-images/issues/10020

Edit 1:

It's the problem of github runner windows-2022, can't solve it, revert to windows-2019

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[rainyl]

Ready to merge.