[ENH] Support more input data layouts in `cudf.from_dlpack`

[wence-]

Related to #10754, the current implementation of from_dlpack requires unit-stride fortran order, and produces appropriate error messages in the unsupported cases

Consider

import cudf
import cupy
a = cupy.arange(10)
b = a[::2]
c = cudf.from_dlpack(b.__dlpack__())
=> RuntimeError: from_dlpack of 1D DLTensor only for unit-stride data
b = cupy.broadcast_to(a[1], (10,)) # b is stride-0
=> RuntimeError: from_dlpack of 1D DLTensor only for unit-stride data

a = cupy.arange(12).reshape(3, 4).copy(order="F")
b = a[::2, :]
c = cudf.from_dlpack(b.__dlpack__())
=> RuntimeError: from_dlpack of 2D DLTensor only for column-major unit-stride data

Since from_dlpack copies in all cases right now, I think that things can be handled like so:

1. Non-fortran-order: useful error
2. unit-stride: current cudaMemcpyAsync one column at a time
3. fastest-dimension is stride-0 (broadcasted arrays): std::fill for the 1D case, just getting the strides right for the 2D case
4. fastest-dimension is stride-N (sliced arrays): cudaMemcpy2DAsync with appropriate choices of pitch and stride for the source array

However, I'm not really sure of the performance implications of these choices, and if the current approach of producing an error and requiring that the caller copy to contiguous fortran-order first before calling from_dlpack is not better. For example, for case 4 is it faster to copy to a contiguous buffer first rather than copying column by column?

[wence-]

The silently bad behaviour was turned into actual logic_errors in #10850, it would still be possible to support more fortran-order or broadcasted inputs if desired.

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