Fix quadtree spatial join OOMs on large numbers of input polygons

[trxcllnt]

Description

Followup to https://github.com/rapidsai/cuspatial/pull/1346.

• Fixes some typos/omissions in types and CMake.
• Adds a new test that OOMs when quadtree_point_in_polygon is passed too many input polygons.
• Fixes quadtree spatial join to handle overflow while counting and more conservatively allocate output buffers.

Fixes #890.

• Failing test run
• Passing test run

Checklist

• [x] I am familiar with the Contributing Guidelines.
• [x] New or existing tests cover these changes.
• [x] The documentation is up to date with these changes.

[trxcllnt]

Not sure what's going on with the conda-notebook-tests job. Can we admin merge this?

[trxcllnt]

/merge